Thursday, March 18, 2010


Is it possible it's been two years since I started this blog? I'm just shaking my head, and wondering where the time has gone.

I started this blog after thinking about it long and hard. It wasn't that I wasn't sure if I could write, as I was already a published author. It was more about what to write, whether or not to stay anonymous, and if anything I had to say would have any relevance to anyone. On the whole, I'd have to say that I'm glad I made the decision to go ahead and start this blog.

There are two other bloggers I give credit to in spurring my interest in starting my own blog. The first would be Zoe, over at My Boyfriend Is A Twat. When I first read the title of this blog I thought, "Man, she must really hate the guy." I then realized that that this was a very playful banter between Zoe and Quarsan, her boyfriend of many years - or at least most of the time, that is. She has a wicked sense of humor, and I wold laugh my ass off at so many of her posts.

The second blogger I discovered at practically the same time, was Petite Anglaise. A Brit expat living in Paris for many years, her writings were lyrical, and honest. She was very open about many aspects of her life, while at the same time maintaining her anonymity. It was a delicate balance that she walked, and unfortunately she wound up being 'dooced" - fired for blogging about work. She was outed to the press, mainly because her blog was one of the most popular in the blogosphere, and someone had a grudge against her. Her employer - of who she would blog about at times without mentioning names, or the name of the company - began reading the blog and fired her. She had the last laugh though, as she sued for wrongful dismissal, and won a nice six figure judgment. She also became a published book author, essentially distilling her blog into a personal memoir.

As of late last year however, she has discontinued personal blogging, which is a loss, but her reasons are understandable. If you go to her blog, the second post down, "Over and Out," will explain it.

What have I discovered during these two years? Well, I have made a wealth of new friends from around the world. I have been able to peek into cultures and ways of life I only had a faint notion of in the past. I have found connections to people with similar interests, and met others who perform the same work I used, that being a paramedic. I've had the pleasure of meeting at least one of my fellow bloggers, Violet Sky, last summer. She came down from the Great White North of Canada to our Lilac Festival here in Rochester last June, and we spent a great day together. There are ugly sides to it as well: Commentators who seem to delight in abusing others for no apparent reason. This applies to bloggers as well, who seem to have no other purpose in life other than to tear down and degrade others.

Blogging has also provided me with a way to help sharpen my writing skills, and force me to write at least several times a week, though I have slacked off on that of late, due to an uptick in my freelance writing business; a good thing unto itself!

So, here's to more years of writing and discovery, and thanks to all those that I have been fortunate enough to have come into my life. Oh, and by the way, you may call me Dave.


Guyana-Gyal said...

Two years. You're young yet :-)

Thanks to blogging, I've met people who've taken away the lonely bits (life here can get that way with family and friends living in other countries); I've laughed hard, thanks to bloggers; I've learnt lots and I know there's generosity out there, in the wicked world.

Keep on blogging, Mr. N...I mean, Dave.

Mr. Nighttime said...

GG-Thanks, and I'll answer to both. I'm not particular. Wait, that's not what I meant...I mean, oh shit, I'll stop there. ;-)

Peter said...

It was a pleasure having discovered you Dave ;-)

You know, NYC in the 90s was the mythical background for so many movies I watched, where gangs often violently shot at EMS personnel.

"Oh well, it's just fiction" I probably thought way back then. I now know better, thanks to you.

On a personal note: I put blogging on hold for the time being.

Zed said...

I'm glad that you started blogging - your comments were always very welcome chez-moi - they still are - so happy anniversary and don't stop writing. And I'm so glad that you changed the colour of the dates per post ;)

Jay said...

Happy blog-versary, Dave! Yours was one of the first blogs I added to my feed, I think!

I started to blog for much the same reasons as you, to hone and practice my writing skills. While I have never had a book published, I'd had a few non-fiction pieces in magazines already and I wanted to improve. And like you, I've made friends around the world!

May you blog for a long time yet! :)

VioletSky said...

And here's hoping we'll read much more from you!

(I'm raising a glass...)

Bina said...

Two years, huh? I'm not sure how long I've been bloggin. I blogged for two years at MSN live spaces, then deleted when my family found it, and I'll have to check and see how long I've been here.

And really? That Petite got fired, sued and won money? Good for her!!!!!